KHS, Author at Knowing Her Sexually

Episode 14: Did She Pull a Bait-and-Switch?

September 24, 2020March 11, 2023 - by KHS - 5 Comments.

Plenty of husbands feel their wife pulled a “bait-and-switch,” meaning she reeled him in with sex and switched to disinterest. What happened?

If your wife says you value her only for sex, it means she isn't hearing your heart. You can't change her thoughts, but you CAN make sure you are communicating the kinds of messages that might alter her perception.

Blog Posts / Knowing Her Mind

What She Means When She Says You Value Her Only for Sex

September 17, 2020September 17, 2020 - by KHS - 13 Comments.

If your wife says you value her only for sex, it means she isn’t hearing your heart. You can’t change her thoughts, but you CAN make sure you are communicating the kinds of messages that might alter her perception.

WHEN you have sex can have an impact on the quality of the experience. J and Chris share some ideas of how to think about the timing of sex.

Knowing Her Hangups / Knowing Her Mind / Podcast

Episode 13: The Timing of Sex

September 10, 2020March 11, 2023 - by KHS - 1 Comment

WHEN you have sex can have an impact on the quality of the experience. J and Chris share some ideas on how to think about the timing of sex.

Blog Posts / Knowing Her Emotions

Are You Bitter in Your Marriage? So Was I.

September 3, 2020October 2, 2020 - by KHS - 13 Comments.

When sex isn’t good in your marriage, it’s easy to become bitter. J shares how she was once bitter in her marriage and what she learned.

Does your wife believe you when you tell her she's beautiful? J and Chris talk about some of the struggles women have and then give you some ideas on how you can help your wife.

Knowing Her Hangups / Podcast

Episode 12: Why Doesn’t She Believe You When You Tell Her She’s Beautiful?

August 27, 2020March 11, 2023 - by KHS - 2 Comments.

Does your wife believe you when you tell her she’s beautiful? J and Chris talk about some of the struggles women have and then give you some ideas on how you can help your wife.

Expressing your gratitude and appreciation when your wife has done something difficult can help her feel seen and valued—and it just might help your sex life, too.

Blog Posts / Knowing Her Emotions / Knowing Her Mind

Why Expressing Gratitude Might Help Your Sex Life

August 20, 2020August 20, 2020 - by KHS - 4 Comments.

Expressing your gratitude and appreciation when your wife has done something difficult can help her feel seen and valued—and it just might help your sex life, too.