Research shows that men are far more likely to have an orgasm during sex than women are. This difference is referred to as the Orgasm Gap. J and Chris help you understand why this gap exists and how you can address it.
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Resources
- Webinar – Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure ($10)
- What Does Her Orgasm Mean?
- 3 Things Your Wife Wants You to Know About Her Sex Drive
- What Else Does Your Wife Want You to Know About Her Sex Drive?
- What Is the Orgasm Gap? | Forbes
- The Orgasm Gap: Simple Truth and Sexual Solutions | Psychology Today
- How to Close the Orgasm Gap, According to Sex Experts | Men’s Health
- Bad Orgasm | The Forgiven Wife
- Why I Sometimes Don’t Care about the Orgasm | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Love Like a Woman | The Forgiven Wife
- These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Q&A with J: “How Can I Orgasm with Penetration?” – Hot, Holy & Humorous
This Week’s Takeaway
Read one (or more) of the articles listed above and think about how you can apply what you’ve learned in your own marriage.
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” – Romans 12:10
It’s a proven fact that women are more likely to achieve orgasm via oral sex. I pointed out this little gem to her and she said (and I QUOTE):
“Well, I guess I just won’t ever have one then.”
#pleaseputmeoutofmymisery
Okay, but oral sex isn’t the only way to have an orgasm! Deep kissing and/or manual stimulation can be just as effective. And you know what also kills a wife’s ability to climax? Pressure, demands, and anger around sex.
How about pursuing what works for your wife? Starting with what makes her feel valued and loved for who she is and what she wants.
~J
See also:
Why Your Wife May Not Want to Receive Oral Sex
Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 8 Reasons That Are Not About You
Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 5 Reasons That Are About You (and What You Can Do About Them)
Episode 59: “Why Won’t My Wife…?”