About KHS

KHS stands for Knowing Her Sexually–and who better to teach husbands about how to sexually understand their wives than two women who write and speak about sex?

J. Parker (Hot, Holy & Humorous and Sex Chat for Christian Wives) and Chris Taylor (Honeycomb & Spice and Sex Chat for Christian Wives) combine their knowledge and insight to bring you information that can help you pursue deeper sexual intimacy in your marriage.


J. Parker has been blogging about marriage and sexual intimacy since 2010 and has written four books: Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s DesignIntimacy Revealed: 52 Devotions to Enhance Sex in MarriageBehind Closed Doors: Five Marriage Stories; and Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples. J is known for her humor and non-nonsense talk about sex. She and her husband “Spock” have been married for 27 years and have two young adult sons and a daughter-by-marriage. They live in the great state of Texas.


Chris Taylor began her Christian sex blog The Forgiven Wife in 2013 with the mission to encourage Christian wives who have struggled with the sexual intimacy in their marriages. She now blogs at Honeycomb & Spice, where she always runs a community for Christian wives. Chris is known for her transparency and for her ability to explain the thoughts and feelings that make so many women feel alone. She and her husband “Big Guy” have been married 30 years and have three adult kids (two boys and a girl). After many years of living in southeast Wisconsin, they recently moved back to their home state and now live in central Illinois.