It can be fun and intimate to add something fresh and exciting to their marriage’s sexual repertoire! But that desire can also come from another place: fear of missing out. Chris and J tackle the issue of sexual FOMO.
Listen to the Podcast
Resources
- Spicing Up Your Bedroom – Webinar Replay
- Q&A with J: Resources for Spicing Things Up in the Marriage Bed – Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Episode 45: Help Your Wife Learn What She Likes in Bed
- Do I Have To? – The Forgiven Wife
This Week’s Takeaway
Consider something you want to try in the bedroom, then dig deeper for the why. That is, ask why you want to do that new thing, answer the question, then ask “why?” again and again and again, until you reach the core reason. (Do it more than once to discover if you have more than one reason.)
This was good. I do often feel that I create more sadness and ache by trying to read and improve things, and by wishing for what I’m probably never going to have.
FOMO or chasing dreams and trying to find something that lights a spark for her…. one or the other.