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Insight and support for Christian husbands
Insight and support for Christian husbands
So I know I have not made our home emotionally safe. I don’t even know how to begin to fix it. I have never physically abused her and I work hard to provide a good life. She told me today that she is a sexual I don’t even know how to respond. She told me she would have more sex but I should not worry about her pleasure. I don’t even know how to respond it’s almost as bad as being rejected. I don’t want to leave but my heart has just been ripped out yet again. How do I tell her or make her see what this has done.
Maybe you start by telling her you don’t know how to respond. Maybe just be vulnerable enough to share that your feelings are wrapped up in all this too, and you want to be a safe place but you’re nervous about getting it right and you want to be sexual with her. ~ J